10. "You can't raise children without a father!"
             People raise children all the time without the father (or mother in some cases) being there. Not having a father in most cases doesn't mean there will be absolutely no men in the childs life.

9. "Being a lesbian is a choice."
             Sure, we all just woke up one day and decided to face ignorant people all over the world hating us for who we love. Think about it people!

8. "You're too feminine to be a lesbian!"
             Guess what people... stereotypes are dead. Some of the most beautiful feminine women in the world are lesbians... wake up.

7. "But you can't even have 'real' sex."
             This may possibly be the most irritating comment for me. Just because there are no penises involved, doesn't mean we can't have sex, because TRUST ME, we can and we do.

6. "Can I watch?"
             Lesbians aren't little novelty porn stars. We aren't any different than straight couples, so please, refrain from chasing your little boy dream. You can never watch.

5. "Excuse me sir..."
             I know it's hard to tell sometimes and honest mistakes are understandable... but thirty minutes into the conversation after hearing her name at least five times, please don't continue to refer to my girlfriend with male pronouns.

4. "I know this nice guy who I think you'd like..."
             Stop trying to set us up with desperate straight 'nice guys' just to see what happens. If we really wanted the help, we'd ask you.

3. "Lesbians all just have penis envy."
              No, quite the opposite. Stop assuming we all want dicks.

2. "Maybe you just haven't met the right man yet."
             And maybe because we are gay we don't want to... so quit trying!

1. "You're going to hell for your sins."
             I believe in God very deeply, and my God is a forgiving one, so please stop making idle threats about your vengeful angry lesbian hating God.

Anyone who's watched the L word knows that 'the chart' is one of the central topics of discussion. For those of you who don't know, the chart is basically a web of connectivity through sex and relationships. Who has slept with who. I'm from a small town in Pennsylvania, and I decided to make a chart last night. Surprisingly, I was able to connect way more women than I thought was ever even possible. The lines were totally crossed and it seems like everyone is connected. This is totally normal on the L word, they're in LA. Where I live is nothing like LA. It's a completely small close minded town. It really made me think, especially when I realized that I was connected to my brother. That right there made me totally disgusted. I know that we can't help who sleeps with who after we leave, but it's still a little disturbing. Seriously girls, make your own charts, it may help you avoid some seriously disgusting connections and protect you.

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What exactly is it that a girl has and a guy does not that is unfullfilling for you?  What about guys is a turnoff?

To put it most simply, I love having sex with women. I love being inside of them and tasting them and everything that goes along with it. With men, I don't have that opportunity and I'm not trying to be offensive, but penises just turn me off. It took me a long time to even be comfortable with a fake one. I'm just not turned on by mens bodies at all. I love men and their minds, but I could never be intimately or romantically attached to them like I am women.

XoXo